“I love you, but I’m not sure I’m IN love with you anymore.”

If you have said or heard these words in your marriage here’s good news – your marriage can be better than ever!

Welcome to Blow Up My Marriage…
by Simple Marriage

This class is a radical paradigm shift in how to view your marriage going forward.

Saying or hearing the words above is a common occurrence in many marriages … but it doesn’t have to be the end of the marriage.

In fact, it’s a great time to begin building something dramatically better.

If you’re interested being part of this class, here’s what you need to do:

  • Be willing to put off making any major relationship decisions (as in should I stay or leave) for at least 4 to 6 months.
  • Start taking an honest look at yourself and your relationship.
  • Participate in this 16 week Blow Up My Relationship Class.
  • Work through the material that will be presented every 2 weeks and participate in an online discussion with Dr. Allan and other class members (the beauty of this format is it allows you to work at your own pace, no calls to schedule or prearrange).

You can do this alone or with your spouse. Obviously, if both of you participate, the class can be even better for your relationship, but your spouse doesn’t have to if they don’t want.

In this class you’ll discover:

  • How to create the best marriage from your strengths, not by looking at what’s wrong.
  • How to see that it’s the relationship that’s the issue, not you or your spouse.
  • Why you never want to lean on your spouse.
  • How to create a great life and have your marriage be the icing on the cake.
  • And, how to transform your sex life.

If you are currently in therapy or contemplating therapy, no worries, this class can be a great addition to the process.

What previous class members say:

When we started, we were in a very bad place. My wife had been having an affair for almost a year, lying quite a bit, and I was in denial. She suggested this class, and I was skeptical, especially since our experience with live counseling ended with her taking the affair to the next level.

Many of the first few lessons seemed like they had been written about me/us, and not for a general audience. We had made so many of the textbook mistakes over the years. But your class made us see these things, gave me the courage/forum to be much more open and honest about my feelings, wants, and needs, and after a truly cathartic conversation with my wife in September we are in a far better place now. And more importantly, we both know that we won’t always be in a great place, that it’s okay, and we now have the tools (individually and as a couple) to deal with that fact. Thank you.

S.O.
“This class has been like a pressure relief valve – so far – in our marriage – taking a step back, understanding the blame game, etc. takes some of the anger away. Counseling was not working for us at all – getting that third person out of the mix didn’t hurt either. ”
V.V.
For me, the final lesson pretty much summed up all that was/is going wrong with myself, my marriage and my life. Wow. I suddenly see very clearly where I’m taking the wrong turns. My whole life – my ideas for writing and business, my marriage, my sex life – had pretty much turned into “masturbation” – watching, doing things only in my mind, for myself, not “showing” anything to the world, avoiding rejection and risk.
“Penetrating the world” is a very powerful image for me and my way forward. Thanks.
M.A.
The lessons have been eye openers for me on several occasions. The course has changed my perspective on conflict and its dynamics, and I have changed my behavior as a result.
M.Z.

Thanks to the format of this class, I’ll come to you with all the material and information.

Every other Monday there will be new material to read through and some work to complete. Since there are 2 weeks between each release of new material, there is plenty of time to follow along at your own pace.

As an added plus, each lesson will be available in two different formats.

One will be via a pdf download, simply download the material and read through it at your leisure. The other will be a mp3 audio version of the lesson that you can download and listen to on your iPod (or other device of your choice), or even listen to it right from the webpage. There is also supplemental lessons and material presented throughout the class to help you apply the material to you situation.

To be clear, you are not signing up for marriage therapy, this is more like marriage consulting or marriage class.

There are three options available.

One is instant, meaning you can have all the material right away and work through it at your own pace. The other two options are available in the Spring, Summer and Fall (whenever the class is offered).

So what should you do if you’re in need of help right away and the next class is still a couple of months away? Simple. Choose the instant option and begin working through the material – it will help you. Then, when the next class enrollment begins, all you have to do is pay the difference between the Instant option and the level you choose and you’re in.

So which one is right for you?

 

Instant Standard Boot camp
Immediate access to material in PDF format
Immediate access to audio versions of each module
Email support for 30 days
A spot in next offering of Blow Up My Marriage
Access to the private forum to interact with other class members and Dr. Allan
Unlimited email support for 16 week class
LIFETIME access to material and future class offerings
4 group coaching calls to help apply the material to your situation (one per month) ($400 value)
30 minute Skype/Phone consultation with Dr. Allan ($100 value)
Bonus: A copy of the material from He Said She Said Class ($97 value)
Bonus: Video interview with Tim Brownson about NLP and marital communication
Bonus: Video interview with Leo of Zen Habits about simplicity in marriage and family
Price 147$ 297$ 497$



*Payment plans are available for Standard and Boot Camp options.
**Each level’s cost covers both you and your spouse. It’s like getting 2 for the price of 1 if they join you!

Upcoming Classes:

January 30 – May 20 (new material every other week)

June 11 – August 5 (an 8-week offering of the class)

September 3 – December 23 (new material every other week)

My 100% Money Back Guarantee

Because I believe so fully in all the Simple Marriage products …
if for any reason this material isn’t useful to your situation, simply let me know and I’ll refund your money.

No harm, no foul.

Blow Up My Marriage is also for couples who:

  • are constantly fighting
  • have experienced a betrayal via an emotional affair
  • have a spouse caught up in pornography usage
  • are in a monotonous marriage
  • consider themselves a Nice Guy or Nice Girl
  • are gridlocked on several issues in the relationship

 

Going through the rough times in marriage doesn’t have to be the end of the relationship. By looking at things in a radically different way, things can be much better than you ever thought.

Here’s to all marriage can become.